READING LIST - readers are leaders :)

Here is my reading list, most of them recommended by Style, so should be good. I haven't bought any of them yet though, but hope to acquire them slowly. Pretty broke at the moment :(

1) Influence: The Art of Persuasion by Robert Caldini
2) The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene
3) Mastering your Hidden Self: A Guide to the Huna by Serge King
4) Introducing Neuro-Linguistic Programming: Psychological Skills for Understanding and Influencing People by Joseph O'Connor and John Seymour
5) Walking with the Caveman DVD
6) The Red Queen by Matt Ridley
7) Set your voice free by Roger Love

Stylelife forum fellow PUAs

This is going to be great. The stylelife challenge is just in 2 days time.

The other day I met up with some of the stylelife forum members, ScubaSteve, Boost, and EntourageagainsttheMachine. We sarged Lotus in South Yarra.

Entourage started the ball rolling by approaching two hot asian chicks dancing on their own and ended up doing a little dance with one of the chicks.

Myself I opened 2 hot asian babes.. in two different sets, but both didn't go to well. Here's what happened.

First asian babe was about an 8 on my scale. She's with 3 other friends, and one guy with afro hairstyle who seems to be in a relationship with another girl. So I opened with the "Hey guys, my horoscope today said that I'll be making some new friends" Didn't really go too well though, they all looked at me weird.. haha

Second asian babe was also about an 8. At first I thought she was alone, but actually her friends was just next to her, a couple. So I opened directly to her with: "Hey, doesn't this place just makes you feel like dancing?" She laughed at first, but then got a bit shy, her friend started to edged her on though, very funny. So I asked them how did they know each other. But then another guy came up and said something to her, and I kind of left after that. I think I should have stayed and talked to the friend a little, so when the guy left, I can continue talking to her. But that's cool ;) Everything adds to experience.

So at the end we left for a coffee place, not before the first asian babe eyeing me before I leave :P What a great night, I can't wait for the Stylelife challenge to begin!!

In reflection
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I notice there is a problem with the volume of my voice. Most of the girls seemed like they couldn't hear me and I had to repeat myself a few times. I guess something for me to work on.

Woohoo.. first time email close in a bookshop

Hello my dear blog,

I'm sorry for ignoring you for so long, been pretty busy, anyway, here's a blog to keep you happy. Today I manage to get the email off a cute Japanese girl from a bookshop.

I was originally just planning to practice opening some girls just to get rid of my fear of approaching, and I didn't realise how bad my fear is after so long of not practicing. However, I saw this cute girl browsing the Jap comic section and I thought, hey I have to go and talk to her.

My opener was nothing fantastic.. Overall the conversation went something like this:

Me: Hey, can I ask you a question?
Her: yeah
Me: When you read manga, do you like the story better or the art?
Her: The story.

So that was my opener basically, nothing fantastic, but then started talking and found out more about her. She's studying English her and have been here for about 1 year. Then we just chatted more about anime and manga and some Japanese food, and in the end, I just said: "Hey it's been nice chatting with you, but I have to go now, Do you have email?" Then she said yeah, and I just got it off her.

I felt fantastic after that, what an experience. However I know I have to improve better, because basically I did an interview pickup, not much flirty fun chat happening which would have been better.

Really am looking forward for the Stylelife Challenge. If you guys are thinking of taking the challenge too, then go to this website: www.stylelife.com

Ciao for now