FR - met up with PAIR guy + night out at a club

Well, here's a field report of mine, an experience of meeting up with one of the people from PAIR,
as well as some observations and what happened during my night out at the club with this guy. It is kind of a mixed result, but at the end of the day, I believe that I learned a fair bit out of it.

Firstly, description of what happened. I get into my car ready to go to the club, I was pumped up, did the Tony Robbins incantation things, totally in state, I felt like the man, I can open up anyone anywhere and I feel like I have this vibe projecting out of me, my body language was solid, I stood straight, good posture, good walk, everything was perfect. So when I first got there, and finished parking my car, I noticed this two people checking to see how much parking they have to pay.

Immediately I opened with: "It's free" and instantly I can notice that the girl became somewhat attracted to me. I believe this is more towards my voice projection, my body language my posture everything. then I chatted with them a while.

HB: thanks,
Me: I always park here so I know. Where you guys going tonight.
Dude: blah blah this place, for friends performance. So where you going?
Me: (club name)
Dude: Oh I was there last week.
Me: Oh, you go out every week huh?
HB: *chuckle
Me: Let me guess, you guys are University friends right?
HB: Yeah I'm from Uni.

I notice there was some attraction between her and me, as she's so open to answering my questions etc. Anyway, she was with the dude, so I just wished them a good night and went my way.

Arriving at the club, it was still early, and it wasn't open yet so I waited outside. I still had my confident body posture and projecting my vibe, and I notice this group of 4 girls and a guy waiting outside. The guy seems like a badass, but they seem to be looking over at me and I'm pretty sure I heard one of the girls distinctively say "hey" in a loud enough voice to try and catch my attention. Anyway, because the guy seemed like a badass, and the girls were dressed really hot, I felt a bit wussed out, but still I feel good from that validation :D

Now for the not so good bit. I met up with this guy from PAIR. Not to say that the PAIR service isn't good, it just shattered my impression that people trying to learn this stuff are genuinely coming from a place to want to improve themselves. From what I get out of it, this guy just seemed to want to get some cheap thrills. He says he does stuff like grabbing the girls, touching them, trying to find the girl who is open to his advances. Upon further questioning how successful this is, he says he gets flake numbers, and the girls usually leave after doing the dirty dance with him.

Anyway, I noticed something else as well, while at the club, I was stuck in my head again. My body language was poor, and mechanical. I wasn't really moving right somehow in the club. I really wonder why... Is it because I was in my head? I think probably so. This experience of being in the club, and seeing a different light when I'm out with just another guy expanded my experiences a little. Firstly, I really get to observe the people in the club and see what situation it really is and here is what I realized:

1) Girls are a commodity. No matter whether they are hot or not. Reason for this is because me and the PAIR guy didn't manage to get into the first club because we didn't have girls with us.
2) There are really more guys than girls in a club. Today was like 10 to 1 ratio.
3) Some guys are just very grabby in the club, trying to get cheap thrills on the easy women.
4) Most people are there with their bunch of friends, and they're just dancing in their own group.
5) Most guys just stand around doing nothing.
6) Girls are quite exhibitionists, especially when they grind against each other while dancing.
7) It's hard when you don't have some girls with you when you go to the club, and the music is so loud that it is difficult to talk.
8) Hot girls know they have a power over guys in the club.
9) I don't know why I get stuck in my head in the club...over analysing things?? Not being comfortable there? Not sure.
10) Knowing the people that work in the club is a must to get you connected to these things.

So.. I'm wondering now whether it is good for me to go out on my own. Maybe because that will make me less self conscious, and unless I don't meet a cool PAIR guy that we can be good friends and people really don't care whether you're there alone or not, as long as you have a fun time.

Oh and I did one approach in the club, just did the "tap tap" thing, and asked her, What're you drinking? She showed me her drink and went along merrily on her way. Because of this, I realize that in a club, you can really try out a lot of stuff very quickly. Just try out all the openers that you have or anything crazy that you'd like to test out.