Day 7 + 8 FR rolled into one
Too busy yesterday to do my Day 7 and today was determined to do Day 7 and Day 8 all rolled into one. Generally all went pretty well, all of it opened at bookstores, grocery stores, Shopping mall.
What I learned:
1) Time constraint
2) Reason for being there
3) Don't lean in when talking to them
4) Being animated when doing the opener
5) Work on voice projection so that it is loud enough.
All the openers went well, and Style you're right the KEY is having time constraint + reason for asking. Here goes my FR -
Approach 1: Long distance relationship opener (LDR) about HB 7, she wasn't too chatty.
Approach 2: HB7 (LDR opener) she commented how it is going to be difficult as girls are needy. And girls need to be able to trust that the guy is not cheating on her blah blah.. she was so nice to talk to! :) Too bad I still don't have the skills yet to number close her.. :(
Approach 3: HB 7 Hair opener, she interrupted me and gave the answer "long hair" straight away, which killed the rest of the opener. I figured it was because I said I wanted a quick opinion, and she wasn't too chatty at the time.
Approach 4: HB 7 Hair opener, went well, smiled and all, but wasn't too chatty either, just said short or long hair is nice.
... The rest were all pretty similar..10 approaches in total in a day :)
All in all, 90% of them opened up and were curious about me asking questions such as this, and were friendly and either were chatty or just gave short opinions.
Can't wait to know what the other challenges are ;)
Quick summary of approaches
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1) HB 7 Long distance opener. She said not sure.
2) HB 7 ABC Long distance opener. Very chatty and nice. Girls are needy. Need the guy there.
3) HB 7 Hair opinion, said long hair straight away. White caucasion? Borders
4) HB 7 White reading manga. Hair opener. Said long or short hair.
5) HB 6.5 Indo asian. Hair opener. Just friendly.
6) Hb 6 Just quick answer. No I think most of the time it doesn't work.
7) HB 7.5 Mag opener. Was just being polite. But laughed.
8) HB 7.5 Superman opener. Said she's pretty practical lucky to be alive.
9) 2 set one 7 one 4 The 4 says it doesn't matter what we think. It's up to them. They just wanted to go.
10) HB 7 Hair opener. Short hair.
In reflection
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1) Try doing mixed sets and sets with more than 1 girl.
2) I didn't realize before that I was mostly doing girl only sets, or small sets.
What I learned:
1) Time constraint
2) Reason for being there
3) Don't lean in when talking to them
4) Being animated when doing the opener
5) Work on voice projection so that it is loud enough.
All the openers went well, and Style you're right the KEY is having time constraint + reason for asking. Here goes my FR -
Approach 1: Long distance relationship opener (LDR) about HB 7, she wasn't too chatty.
Approach 2: HB7 (LDR opener) she commented how it is going to be difficult as girls are needy. And girls need to be able to trust that the guy is not cheating on her blah blah.. she was so nice to talk to! :) Too bad I still don't have the skills yet to number close her.. :(
Approach 3: HB 7 Hair opener, she interrupted me and gave the answer "long hair" straight away, which killed the rest of the opener. I figured it was because I said I wanted a quick opinion, and she wasn't too chatty at the time.
Approach 4: HB 7 Hair opener, went well, smiled and all, but wasn't too chatty either, just said short or long hair is nice.
... The rest were all pretty similar..10 approaches in total in a day :)
All in all, 90% of them opened up and were curious about me asking questions such as this, and were friendly and either were chatty or just gave short opinions.
Can't wait to know what the other challenges are ;)
Quick summary of approaches
----------------------------
1) HB 7 Long distance opener. She said not sure.
2) HB 7 ABC Long distance opener. Very chatty and nice. Girls are needy. Need the guy there.
3) HB 7 Hair opinion, said long hair straight away. White caucasion? Borders
4) HB 7 White reading manga. Hair opener. Said long or short hair.
5) HB 6.5 Indo asian. Hair opener. Just friendly.
6) Hb 6 Just quick answer. No I think most of the time it doesn't work.
7) HB 7.5 Mag opener. Was just being polite. But laughed.
8) HB 7.5 Superman opener. Said she's pretty practical lucky to be alive.
9) 2 set one 7 one 4 The 4 says it doesn't matter what we think. It's up to them. They just wanted to go.
10) HB 7 Hair opener. Short hair.
In reflection
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1) Try doing mixed sets and sets with more than 1 girl.
2) I didn't realize before that I was mostly doing girl only sets, or small sets.
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